This step is noncompulsory but will dramatically increase your chances of people actually reading your profile and contacting you. Write a few sentences about yourself, your interests and upload some good photos of yourself.
Use our website's state-of-the-art search to spot members who match your criteria. Or just scan through listings and spot members that seem interesting.
Identified someone who you like the look of? Send them a few words or just a wink and see what happens next. With a little luck you'll be on your way to uncover your ideal match.
It only takes a few minutes