This step is optional but will seriously increase your chances of people actually reading your profile and contacting you. Let people know a bit about yourself, your interests and upload some good photos of yourself.
Utilise our website's sophisticated search to find members who fulfill your criteria. Or just leaf through listings and find people that appear interesting.
Identified someone who looks appealing? Send a letter to them or just a wink and see if they're interested. With a little luck you'll be on your way to uncover your ideal match.
And start dating