This step is discretionary but will greatly increase your chances of people actually reading your profile and contacting you. Write a little about yourself, your hobbies and upload a nice photo of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to spot members who match your criteria. Or just leaf through listings and spot members that arouse your interest.
Identified someone who you find interesting? Send a letter to them or just a wink and see if they're interested. With a little luck you'll be on your way to discovering your suitable partner.
And start dating